Will we live to a silver wedding?

Each position of this test requires a clear yes or no answer. Summarize the scores listed below.

1. Sometimes it seems to me that I am not good enough for my husband.
2. My husband encourages me in everything and is pleased with my capabilities, achievements, and mind.
3. He always chuckles at me and downplays my progress.
4. My husband would prefer me to depend on him more.
5. When I try to go on a diet, do exercises or somehow improve my appearance, it seems to me that my husband does not approve of this secretly.
6. My husband is often angry with me.
7. My husband likes that I can stand up for myself.
8. He is glad when I take the initiative in the intimate sphere.
9. The husband is completely satisfied with our sexual relationship.
10. My husband likes the way I look.
11. I think my husband understands me.
12. My husband believes that my desire to have friends is just a disguised thirst for love affairs.
13. My husband does not claim that he is always right.
14. I have a feeling that my husband appreciates me highly.
15. My husband refers except to equal.
16. My husband knows very well what he really is, and he likes me.
17. Judging by what my husband says to others, he treats me like a close friend.
18. From the point of view of my husband, sometimes I am “too romantic.”
19. My husband is happy to share my hobbies.
20. My husband sometimes assesses me harshly and insultingly.
21. I often suspect that I do not answer his ideas about what a wife should be.
22. My husband tells strangers about my mistakes and shortcomings.
23. My husband deeply believes in me.
24. My husband can be very jealous, even when there is no reason for it.
25. My husband is not afraid that I have a close male friend (of course, just a friend).
26. It often seems to me that the husband does not approve of my friends.
27. My husband respects both my need for communication, and my need for silence and solitude.
28. My husband allows me to have my own opinion and not feel guilty.
29. My husband readily admits that in many ways we are alike.
30. I am embarrassed when my husband sees me undressed.

Each answer “yes” is estimated by one point in the following positions: 2, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 13, 15, 16, 17, 19, 23, 25, 27, 28, 29.

Each answer "no" is estimated by one point in the following positions: 1, 3, 4, 5, 6, 12, 14, 18, 20, 21, 22, 24, 26, 30.

Calculate the total amount of points.

26-30: Your marriage was a success. You feel that your husband loves and respects you. He is not afraid of your individuality, n21-25: in general, you feel that your husband understands and appreciates you. However, there are critical zones in your relationship. It would be helpful to talk directly with her husband about this. It may turn out that it only seemed to you that he did not approve of your behavior, that these were empty fears or a result of misunderstanding. Indeed, in general, it is clear that he feels a strong feeling for you.

16-20: you have good reason to doubt how much your husband loves you. Too often, you feel that he does not approve of you, does not trust you, controls your actions. Do not delay a serious and honest discussion of these problems with your husband.

Less than 15 points: you are uncomfortable with your husband. Love can hardly survive in such harsh conditions.