Someone from his childhood imagines a wedding as a magnificent and pompous ceremony with many guests, a great feast and an extensive entertainment program, but for some this holiday is a celebration for two, which means there is no need to spend too much. Let's look at the benefits of a modest wedding.
1. Romance. Escape together - this is very romantic, why not go to a faraway country where you always wanted to go, and not make an alliance in accordance with local traditions? However, you can sign at one of the registry offices and spend the honeymoon as you want. There is no need to plan a celebration, spend time and nerves on preparations, to worry that everything will not go as planned. If in the future you want photos in a white dress and a limousine - you can always celebrate an anniversary in this style or organize a second wedding in honor of the wedding.
2. Efficiency. Not everyone can afford to spend thousands of dollars to live a royal day. No matter how mercantile this may sound, very rarely the celebrations pay for themselves, so not everyone wants to get into loans and spend fabulous sums. It is much better to organize a modest family celebration with family and friends, and for the rest of the sum to go on an amazing trip or to get something really necessary.
3. A variety of styles. Who said that a modest wedding must be boring? - In fact, a small party is much easier to organize, it can be made more interesting and take into account the interests of each guest. You never know ideas! - A pirate-style wedding, a stylish or retro wedding, a la Provence celebration, a “denim” wedding, an English or an oriental wedding, a holiday based on a favorite fairy tale and so on. Stock up on suitable details, support for friends and boldly create your own, unique celebration! It would be great if the bride and groom tailor individual outfits, pick up rings with beautiful engraving! It is in the uniqueness and creativity of the power of the holiday, and then it will be completely unimportant, 10 people were present at it, or 100, because your memories will remain the most delightful!
4. Your own holiday. Often, organizing a wedding, people tend to take into account the interests and all the guests. Suppose, if many women with children or elderly people are invited, a cheerful picnic in nature disappears completely. A modest wedding can take place anywhere: in nature, in the country, in a cafe, in an apartment or in a country house. Both the newlyweds and guests will feel comfortable and cozy, because they know each other, not like a celebration, when several dozen guests and half of them see the other half for the first time.
5. Atmospheric. No matter what they say, not every couple dreams of a magnificent wedding. Often a great holiday turns into a regular show with strained smiles and kisses to the cries of several dozen guests. Surrounded by close people, the newlyweds will feel more relaxed, they will not have to be distracted by settling conflicts between guests or entertaining those present, because people who know each other will find something to do.
6. Less problems. The organization of any holiday does not pass without a trace, and even weddings - all the more. It is necessary to take into account dozens of nuances and settle a lot of important issues. Sending invitations, choosing outfits and accessories, renting a cafe, car, planning an entertainment program and walking - all this is very tiring, as a result, the couple are not so much enjoying what is happening as trying to understand if everything turned out perfect.
A small wedding may well be organized by the forces of friends and acquaintances - call them for help in decorating the hall or preparing an entertainment program. To save money, you can decorate the room with seasonal flowers, include dishes from seasonal vegetables and fruits in the menu.
Nobody canceled the hand-made thing either, especially since the handicrafts were created by hand, they are highly valued and give individuality to any celebration. If the party is held in a restaurant, then the festival until 9 pm will be much cheaper than a banquet for the whole night.
7. A big wedding is old fashioned. Now at the peak of fashion are small parties and an ultrafashionable party. Huge weddings for hundreds of guests are in the past, it is better to invite a limited number of guests, but spend the evening in an unusual and beneficial way. The wedding ceremony on the boat or yacht, on the beach near the sea will be remembered much better than the crowd of people in the registry office and traffic jams.
8. No restrictions. Classic wedding still implies certain restrictions in the choice of clothes or vehicles. On a small holiday, you can come in jeans or a cocktail dress, and no one will say a word to you. Informal party is a great way to show your individuality and be known as a creative bride, and not to look like dozens of others, waiting in line for the FIRST.
9. Party "turnkey". This is a great option for forever busy newlyweds, thankfully, dozens of wedding agencies offer their services on the market, ready to take on all the trouble of organizing a holiday. You can consult with experts, discuss how you see your ideal evening and get a decent result. An agency is a good choice if you have a minimum of preparation time, there is no desire or opportunity to drive around dozens of shops in search of something unique. And an entertainment program can be made on your own - entrust this business to your creative friends or friends.
10. “No” to the script. A big celebration is sure to take place according to a certain scenario, so it turns out that from the morning until late evening the time of the newlyweds is arranged by the minute. A modest party does not require such punctuality: dozens of restless guests do not hang around before your eyes, which means you can spend more time on your first family photo shoot, take a walk, feel yourself as new people. Yes, and the evening program will be held in accordance with your wishes and preferences. It seems that the formalities were observed, and no one was left offended by the guests, and the newlyweds feel freer.
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