Preparing for a wedding celebration, as it turned out, is exciting not so much for the newlyweds, as for their parents. The economic side of the question of choosing and paying for wedding events, even against the background of great parental love, can arouse in them a penchant for such purely mathematical concepts as analysis and rationalism.
As a result, the wedding itself became the embodiment of the ideas of the two parties, ideas that, in fact, mutually exclusive each other:
1. The lack of individuality. Who would argue, the wedding should not be like the others, but because it is so special! Because the main thing is the bride, and everything else is secondary.
And in general, it is not clear why reinventing the wheel, straining the guests with some thematic scenarios of the evening or the floral compositions corresponding to them. People came to relax, be glad for the newlyweds, drink and eat, in the end. So you need to give them this opportunity. Let them celebrate as best they can.
One might think that some of the guests are very worried about what and how all these trinkets are made, called the decor of the banquet hall. And this is when there is such a huge amount of food on the tables - salads, snacks, and alcoholic beverages for every taste.
So what if it is difficult to surprise with a salad or herring under a fur coat? But none of the guests would say that the table was poor, that there was nothing, or that the wedding of niece Lucy was remembered more.
And all because you can not save on your own wedding, in any case. This is such an event when the imagination of all-all relatives and acquaintances can be struck just in one fell swoop. That is, feed and drink to satiety. And if you also add soul music to the music and launch at the end of the evening, they will remember this wedding until the end of their days. This is our way!
2. A waste of money. So what, the wedding - it is always a big expense. It cannot be otherwise, and it should not. What does it work out if you save on everything? Well this is not a wedding at all, and so, do not understand what, gatherings.
A real wedding is abundance, when everything is the most prestigious. The most luxurious, the most fashionable, the most expensive. If the dress - that, at least, similar to a dress of Kate Middleton. So what if not on the figure, but all the girlfriends, and so will burst with envy. Especially if they find out how much it costs.
And a limousine, there must be a limousine, and the more the better. As it arrives at such a transport to the house, so the neighbors, consider that there is enough talk for a whole year, and the guests will get impressions.
And in general, a limousine is cool. Yes, dear, but it is even good, now nobody dares to say that we were greedy, and therefore, gifts should be expensive. All the same, after all, everything will pay off - relatives are spending something, but the presents remain with the young. So, the problem is not ours.
3. Fashion trends. The main problem of modern weddings is a departure from parental traditions. Everything that was taken from our ancestors has become unimportant, and should not be so. Of course, we are modern people and do not consider ourselves as backward, but all these hip-hops do not warm our soul, and therefore, neither we nor our guests at the wedding are absolutely necessary. We want everything to be soulful: "Oh, viburnum blooms" or "Why are you girls." Everything is clear, everything is familiar to all, albeit familiar, but not shocking. And it is right. In the old fashioned way, it always turns out better. And when all the guests sing - it means that the holiday was a success!
4. Selection of staff. What is a toastmaster and why at the wedding of DJ? The answer to this question now even the schoolboy knows. Now it is so accepted, such a fashion - someone should entertain the guests at the wedding. Now it’s not like before, they asked their neighbor, for example, he unwrapped his own comic jokes, and everyone was guests, all as one, just under the table laughing.
Now this number does not pass, and if you invite, then only real artists, or even better - famous, those who know everything - singers or comedians. And how much their performance will cost is unimportant. Of course, expensive, and so understandable. These are artists, stars of show business. This is a super dream! And they certainly should be at our celebration. Nobody else will have such a wedding! And let all the girlfriends, friends and former classmates die of rapture and envy. The main thing is to have enough money.
5. Choosing a place for a holiday. If we consider that a holiday is always a restaurant, then to celebrate a wedding, it should be, at a minimum, a chic restaurant, an elite institution, and it’s better if it’s a club type. For complete reliability, so to speak.
And for the reliability and comfort, we pay, and no matter how much. The amount does not matter. For true love, the concept of "expensive" should not exist, so dear? And isn't all preparation for a wedding based on love at all?
Here it is, the main surprise for the guests: the establishment of the highest category for some time is at your service - and that’s all thanks to the union of two hearts, our wedding. Only the elite can visit here - the ruling elite, eminent film actors, the local opera prima and those who are lucky enough to get on our guest list.
This is the high point! Tell about the upcoming celebration of girlfriends, is not only possible, but necessary. Let them drool. Enjoy the girls my kindness, this is your chance, at least once in life to get closer to an elite society.
6. Insidious weather. Rain, despite all its romance, is not included in wedding plans, because it is wet, damp, cold and unpleasant. But since our motto is wedding at any cost, everything else is not important.
Unforeseen circumstances should not take us by surprise. Therefore, we, as civilized modern people, will try to conclude a contract with an insurance company. Of course, these costs do not apply to the list of wedding, though, what's the difference.
Well, if bad weather was designated in advance, the bride, as the main character, definitely need a makeup artist. And how, all world stars have their own cosmetologists and makeup artists, they write about this in all glamor magazines. And the worse I am ...
7. Excessive autonomy. And in general, a wedding is a very personal matter. Therefore, all these annoying notations should not be listened to at all. It seems that everyone gathered in marriage instead of me, and they consider it their duty to tell how this all should happen from their point of view. Bore such.
As if besides them in the world in general no one else ever got married. How tired of these endless reminders. Yes, leave me alone, finally. We are adults, we think that we cannot do everything ourselves, why do we need your “professionals”.
These agencies are incomprehensible ... Do they understand how to serve such a cool glamorous wedding like ours? No, no, better to find someone from your own, proven ... We must ask around from friends. Here Zina's aunt is a cool cook, she will master the wedding once or twice. And then Lyubka, my friend. She seems to have acted somewhere with congratulations, so there is experience ...
Fuf ... And it would also be necessary for someone to start supplying products ... and accessories ... and transport ... and something else we forgot ... Stop! And where is the guest list and invitation? ..
8. Bachelorette parties. One of the most romantic and pleasant moments in the preparation for the wedding is, of course, a bachelorette party. It is even bigger and better than the wedding itself. Because there is no groom, and you can secretly aloud with your girlfriends, not fearing not only the future husband, but also the mother-in-law (and who invented her). In general, girls, we walk!
The last night is free, and there all is married life with its duties. And then, you will not relax too much - the groom, that is, the future husband, went to the bachelor party ... and who knows how he will feel in the registry office. What if he feels bad, he can change his mind and marry ...
9. Every detail is important. Yes, the details are important, and so clear. It is just not clear why we pay such a huge pile of money to all these florists, designers, cosmetologists and other service employees, but at the same time, we cannot be sure of their valuable work.
The bride and the groom are full of their own personal affairs, and they are not obliged to spend their time on telephone calls to florists, designers, cosmetologists and guests. In general, the device of the wedding and all the technical nuances associated with its conduct relates primarily to the close relatives of the newlyweds.
10. Excitement and care. What are all nonsense, all there nerves and excitement. We don’t think about that, the wedding, after all, is the most important day for lovers, the beginning of a new life, therefore, you need to think about yourself and worry too. It is stupid to be distracted by trifles: is everything in order, is everything at the place, where are the rings, where are the flowers, God, where is the groom ... If there is, it's fortunate :)
Well, if something does not work, then it's time to read this article. Do not accidentally recognize yourself? If yes, then you will not be able to avoid these mistakes the next time ...
If you strongly disagree with the opinion described in the article, we’ll open a big secret: everything will be fine at your wedding! Verified
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