Not all people love weddings: and if someone's opinion about this holiday is reasoned and has a place to be, most of them blog and chat lovers purposely try to denigrate this celebration, that's just “fu-fu-fu,” and not a holiday. You read their "good and light wishes" and involuntarily it becomes insulting for people who put soul into the organization of their (or someone else's) holiday. It is easy to paint the world with black paint and equate one size fits all, but not everyone can see the hidden opportunities.
Do you still dislike weddings and are considered unnecessary and uninteresting? - Then we go to you. But before we debunk the most common myths:
1. Wedding is expensive and no one needs. Gain credits to buy an expensive dress and rent two, and preferably three limousines and the best restaurant - this is all our people. In fact, a wedding is not a competition, who has spent the most money. Even the most luxurious holiday can turn out to be completely false, and they often arrange it to maintain reputation or raise self-esteem (a dubious way, by the way). You can restrict yourself to a family celebration, or even arrange an evening just for two. By the way, keep within a very modest amount, and at the same time the atmosphere will be good and friendly. As for the statement that a wedding is a waste of money, think about how much you would call things giving new impressions and emotions for which you don’t have to pay? New things? Travels? Presents? - expensive, but how much positive brings! Parallel caught?
2. Wedding - a holiday for relatives . Many people are still convinced that a wedding is a day when anyone is having fun, but not newlyweds. And as soon as the guests get to the banquet hall, they forget why, in fact, gathered here. This is partly true, but not always. Firstly, relatives and friends are different for each person, their behavior depends on their (and your) conscience, and secondly, no one asks you to arrange an exemplary wedding for your mom, dad or grandmothers. Everything should be the way you want, you create your destiny, so you and cards in hand.
3. All weddings are the same . People, if you still think so, you are hopelessly behind the times. Well, seriously, now there are so many stylizations and unusual traditions that even the most boring and stereotypical holiday can be changed beyond recognition. Just do not be lazy to look for: hold a wedding in the style of your beloved country, by book or movie, arrange an away ceremony in an amazingly beautiful place, develop an individual script - look at that, and life will seem more fun! 
4. You get tired of the wedding . This may say the wedding organizer or presenter, but not the guests. Especially, if the script is interesting and thought out to the smallest detail. As for the newlyweds, no one bothers to change the daily routine at their discretion and leave only those items that are really needed, so that the planner will help you. More time and effort is spent on preparations (if you did not hire an organizer), and the wedding itself should be your fairy tale, so tune in to the positive and do not plan a lot of things - then in the evening you will be squeezed out lemons.
5. This is only one day, why spend money? Guys, this is a holiday! If holidays were every day, you too would be tired of them! You are not asking for a birthday or a new year to be repeated every month? And next year you will have an anniversary - this is no less important event. Kohl see from a financial point of view and do not want to throw out money for a few hours of pleasure, organize a chamber wedding and do not suffer. It is unlikely that someone has the ideal wedding - beer with chips on the couch or "they came and went to bed." If you really want beauty, pathos and to be the center of attention, if you please be patient and put up with expenses, and learn how to save - it will be useful in the future.
This is just a “hot five” of myths about the wedding, there are much more of them, but we assure you that you have no reason to dislike this holiday and refuse it, because unpleasant sayings began on the Internet. In the hands of a skilled creator and the clay becomes a masterpiece, so go for it!
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