Sunday, January 20, 2019

Bad omens at the wedding and tradition

It has long been the day of the marriage paid great attention to superstition, with their help trying to determine how the family life of the couple. Gradually, a lot of wedding signs. Some events occurring on the day of the marriage are considered to be a bad omen.

Bad omens for the bride and groom

There are many superstitions about how and when it is better to hold a wedding. Common signs:
  1. They say that the marriage concluded in a leap year in May and the 13th of any month will not bring happiness. If on a wedding day, in good weather, it suddenly rains, good luck.
  2. At the wedding feast, young people should not sit on chairs, it symbolizes a quarrelsome and difficult family life, accompanied by failures. For them, prepare one bench or bench.
  3. You can not allow anyone to stand between the newlyweds. This means that they will not live together for a long time and soon divorce.
  4. Newlyweds should not eat with one spoon. It is believed that because of this, they will be unhappy with each other all their lives.
  5. The bride should not give a bouquet in the hands of anyone, only for a while to the groom or mother, for example, to correct the veil. Girlfriends throw another - similar, which is ordered in advance.

Pro Bride Dress

Many traditions are associated with the bridal outfit and will accept, including the bad ones. The most popular are:
  1. The groom should not see the bride in a dress before the wedding. She, too, is undesirable to look in the mirror in full image (you can, for example, remove one glove or remove the brooch, the hairpin from the hair). Violation of this tradition promises minor troubles in family life. Do not choose pearl jewelery - this is to tears.
  2. If the bride's dress is not solid, but consists of a separate corset and skirt, then there will be many separations in life.
  3. If a girl gets married in sandals with open fingers, straps or laces, then the family will live in poverty. For the wedding day is recommended to choose the classic closed shoes.
  4. Wedding dress can not be worn through the legs. This means that life together will be bad, will go awry.

About the groom's outfit

A man should also pay attention to the suit and shoes. Regarding the groom's attire, there are such wedding omens and superstitions:
  • it is believed that if, instead of a tie, a young one puts on a bow tie, he will cheat on his wife;
  • if the groom is in a green suit, then the spouses will be mocked all their lives;
  • blue outfit - to change;
  • white suit and shoes at the wedding - to health problems.

Superstitions about rings
Decorations of husband and wife, symbolizing that they are engaged, deserve special attention. Bad omens associated with wedding rings:
  1. It is necessary to choose the classic smooth rings without cuts and stones. Then family life will be calm, without quarrels.
  2. Newlyweds should not give their jewelry to try on someone, whether relatives or friends. It is advisable to bring them to the young child in the registry office.
  3. The box or pillow from the wedding rings after the wedding young should not touch. She is taken away by one of the unmarried friends who the newly-made wife chooses.
  4. It is believed that if one of the young people drops the ring before putting it on a finger, this is a separation. Because of the excitement of marriage, this happens often. In order to “prevent” the separation, a thread is threaded through the missed ring (prepared by the witness in advance). She "takes" with her trouble. After the ceremony, the thread is burned by the one who dropped the ring.

Bad omens for wedding guests

Superstitions have not passed and those who are invited to the wedding. For guests there are such bad omens on the wedding day:
  1. Invitees should not give the newlyweds a set of dishes with knives and forks - this is a quarrel. If the spouses still receive these items from the guest, then they must give him a few coins, small money. The list of prohibited gifts include watches, bed linen, handkerchiefs and towels, icons.
  2. You can not cross the road with the bride or the bride either before or after painting in the registry office. It deprives of good luck.
  3. Handing gifts from hand to hand is forbidden, so guests give away some of their energy. They are put in a special box or on a tray covered with a towel.
  4. Guests are not allowed to wear a black wedding. It is believed that this will overshadow the life of the newlyweds.
There are even such wedding superstitions that concern moms and dads of newlyweds. Bad omens for parents:
  1. Mothers of the bride and groom should be dressed in solid dresses. It is believed that a separate outfit will lead to discord in the family.
  2. Parents should not give the bride and groom their own rings, especially if their marriage is unhappy or broken up. To wear someone else's engagement decoration - completely repeat the fate of this person.
  3. After the groom dances with his mother or the bride - with his father, parents should bring them together. If this is not done, then the young can part.
  4. It is impossible for someone from the guests to correct the clothes on the young, including witnesses. This is allowed only for parents. They should also make sure that no one touches the costumes of the young people.

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