After completing the official registration, photo shoots and walks, it's time to move on to the final event, without which no wedding party can do - this is a banquet.
Discuss the banquet script in advance with the master of ceremonies. It is worth asking him about the blanks and developments. Do you have a desire to organize traditional ceremonies during the celebration - an auction, bride kidnapping, contests and more. The measure should be in everything: it is better to organize a couple of memorable contests than to bore people with lots of entertainment.
The presenters should be warned about how many hours a videographer and a photographer will be present at your banquet: as a rule, such work is paid for at a different rate longer than the agreed hours.
Consider when you will cut the cake, throw the bridal bouquet and so on - these important points should be held in the middle of the banquet, as long as everyone is invited on the spot, cheerful and fresh.
It is also important to determine the music, especially the main points - the first dance of the newlyweds, dance with their parents, cutting the cake, bouquet, removing the veil. It is desirable that for each of the guests a suitable melody is found: after all, often guests at the wedding are not only young people, but also the older generation, who simply find it awkward to dance to club music. These nuances are discussed in advance with a DJ or toastmaster. If you have invited musicians, discuss the repertoire in advance, especially those tunes that you do not want to hear. Check if the discs are playing with your music on the DJ equipment.
Take care of the guests
Often, according to tradition, the newlyweds utter words of gratitude to the guests. Do not hesitate and thank your assistants - photographers, master of ceremonies, restaurant owners, they will be pleased. If you have not taken care of the speech - improvisation will come to the rescue.
Arrange with friends or witnesses that after you leave the restaurant, they will help you remove the decorations and collect the rest of the food and help parents put this stuff in the car.
You also need to decide how guests will depart, especially if the restaurant is located outside the city - you can rent a bus or at least stock up on the telephone numbers of local taxis.
Newlyweds and Alcohol
Of course, everyone decides for himself, to drink him alcohol or not to drink, but the newlyweds still need to be prudent. First of all, such a celebration is stressful, and it is not always known how your body will behave after alcohol. Maybe intoxication will not come, but the headache is quite able to darken the holiday.
Discuss in advance the moment that you will sip drinks. A couple in a drunken state in the photos will look far from the best.
Of course, you can't hide from toasts like “Drink to the bottom”, but you can find a way out of this situation - stretch a couple of glasses of champagne for the whole evening, drink juice or lemonade, saying that you have vodka in your glass and all the questions themselves fall away. Also remember that you still have to dance your first dance.
It also happens that at a celebration one of the guests carelessly spills drinks. For example, white wine or champagne almost do not leave stains, so try to ensure that there is no red wine within a meter around you.
Counting Finance
Agree, it doesn’t look very nice when the newlyweds pull out money from the envelopes and in a hurry recount them. Therefore, to pay for a banquet, it is better to postpone finances in advance, and not be nervous on such a solemn day. If you want to pay out of the money that will be presented to you, it is better to shift them away from prying eyes.
Advance in advance the exact amount of payment for the services of a photographer, toast-master, videographer and musicians. Check if there are any unexpected expenses. It may be worthwhile to set aside a few more money to pay for the banquet, because there is a possibility of a backorder. It is worth taking into account broken glasses, money for redemption, small change that is showered with young ones and so on.
Tips for young
- Be sure to have breakfast in the morning, even if you do not want to eat at all from excitement;
- Treat your troubles with humor - only a smiling and cheerful bride will cause admiration;
- Do not forget that this day is only yours, so enjoy it as much as possible: dance, participate in contests, have fun - then the guests will be infected with your optimism and cheerfulness;
- Do not worry about the little things: the groom, guests, dress, car, documents - this is something that should not be forgotten, and the rest is not so critical.
Enjoy your wedding!
We would like to thank once again brides who shared their irreplaceable experience.
You can also familiarize yourself with the brides advice regarding the image of the bride , the wedding walk and the organization of the ransom .
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