Each person can make a mistake, however, brides their mistakes and mistakes can be costly and significantly spoil the impression of the wedding. We bring to your attention the hot five of the most common misconceptions of brides.
1. Total savings. People like to go to extremes: either to save on everything mentally or to get out and turn the wedding into a royal ball. “Why should I invite a stylist? - I'll get up early and go to the hairdresser "," Decorate the room with flowers? - fi, how commonplace, better we will cut paper garlands, hang posters, cheap and cheerful, Dear host? “But why, Uncle Vasya from Ryazan will do it no worse” - in fact, this is the beginning of the end. Ask yourself: why are you arranging a wedding? - the answer is simple, so that this day will be remembered. Do not save on the quality of services, it is better to invite fewer guests, order a less “cool” restaurant or involve the organization of best friends and relatives. And also: forget the expression “the wedding will not pay off”, do you arrange a holiday just to collect tribute? Or really for yourself and your loved ones? - this is not an auction,
2. Wedding once, we walk! A rare family has an unlimited budget, so no need to try to stand out in front of someone, and then pay off loans for two years. Be reasonable, not always expensive means good. If the services of a photographer cost a lot of money, and looking at the pictures, I want to cry, it is unlikely the price will be justified. At the same time, the “beginner genius” for a penny also finds one chance in a million, be guided by the average price category - you can't go wrong. Looking at brides, sometimes it seems that the wedding for them is the only day in life when you can wear expensive dress and shoes just to boast and wipe the nose of your friends, but we save on the services of the same stylist or florist. Let's be honest: the price of the image should be no more than 15% of the budget, count your possibilities.
3. Perfectionism. Worse groom sluts can only be a perfectionist bride. Everything should be gorgeous: massage courses, rejuvenating masks, haircut, hairstyle, manicure. Oh yes, a couple of kilograms need to lose! And before the wedding, two days! It is not for nothing that stylists recommend not changing the image drastically shortly before the holiday, and for your future husband you will be perfect without fasting or reds from wraps and hip massages! To induce beauty is a commendable pursuit, but everything should be in moderation.
4. Why do I need helpers? - I know everything myself. Well, of course, you are a genius, and all these organizers, coordinators, designers and florists simply eat their bread for nothing. One of the biggest mistakes in preparing for the wedding - arrogance. As a result, you don’t fit into the budget, the flowers selected in the nearest store wilt in the banquet hall, not even after two hours, the car’s decorations fly off the road, and the relative from the village (he is the toastmaster) just does not wait for the end of the evening. Be smart, learn from the mistakes of others: consult with professionals, sit on bride forums - very useful topics are often discussed there, attend exhibitions, watch samples, share responsibilities with others. Maybe you can do it yourself, but will it be happier?
5. Why plan? - let it be. If the bride complains that she worked like a horse and was terribly tired during the preparation for the wedding, we give a 90% guarantee that she not only did not use the services of specialists, but even didn’t hear about such a thing as a planner. The more detailed you calculate the costs, break up the day into stages, draw up a schedule - the easier it will be. Moreover, there are a lot of suitable applications on the Internet (for example, Wedding Expenses Calculator ), and to consult online with the coordinators is not a problem. Keep a diary and make it a rule to write down where you were, what you bought, and how much money you spent, so you will stop wondering "where did 10,000 go and why do we not have enough time for anything?"
Do not overestimate your strength, take care of yourself, plan such a wedding as you want, but without fanaticism! We wish you an unforgettable holiday!
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