At modern weddings, it is accepted that the newlyweds leave much earlier than the guests. And their desire to leave this holiday of life and not sit "until the last client" is understandable.
First, I want to leave enchantingly - through the flower arch, to the applause or brilliance of Bengal lights, and not when the evening has finally died away and there are only untidy tables and a couple of late guests. Secondly, if you have fun with guests until the morning, you can stay without a wedding night. What kind of romance is there at 7 am, when the eyes just stick together with fatigue? But this time must be devoted to each other, especially since the occasion is very worthy!
You are not attendants and not toastmaster, you are not obliged to amuse guests to the first star! However, you need to provide a few important points so that the holiday does not go away after “no”.
Does the evening continue? If you hired a hall until the morning, it is not at all necessary to disperse the guests at home at 11. Let yourself have fun, but you definitely need a person who will look after this! The best option is to hire a wedding coordinator who will track everyone, if financial opportunities do not allow - ask good friends.
The issue of transport. It is best to take care of the transfer of guests in advance, especially if the wedding takes place outside the city. Firstly, not everyone will arrive in their cars, and secondly, not everyone will be able to get home by himself. Hire minibuses and ask them to come up 40 minutes before the restaurant closes - just have time to load everything, also warn guests in advance - make an announcement at the beginning of the evening or post a poster on the wall. If the holiday is in the city, write the taxi numbers on the slate, and invite guests who will sleep with you, order a car in advance.
Entertainment for guests. It is possible to agree with the leader that he would follow the course of events and, if the guests start to get bored, take care of the program. However, in the midst of the evening, people already have time to get to know each other and actively entertain themselves. The main thing is that the music is playing, and there is something to eat and something to drink - order with a margin.
I demand the continuation of the banquet! A DJ can announce the end of the banquet (about an hour before the hall’s closure, so that the guests could get together and solve the transport issue). If the guests do not want to disperse and want to "doggul" - yes, please. These are not your problems anymore, all adults will find a place to continue the banquet and entertain themselves.
The remaining items and gifts. Ask parents and friends to ensure that none of the guests forget their bags or clothes. All gifts can be folded in advance at the appointed place, and only then loaded into the car. If you have forgotten something “dispersed from Basseinaya Street”, arrange with your relatives who will make a “luggage room” in your house. Postcards, bouquets, books of wishes for newlyweds are better to take with them, so as not to inadvertently offend donors.
Dismantling the decor. You lovingly decorated the hall, spent a lot of time on it, but sooner or later the beauty will have to be removed. If decorators performed this task, arrange for them to arrive in the morning and dismantle the decorations. If you made your own, discuss this issue with the administration: you can come in the morning before the restaurant opens and calmly, without haste, remove the entire decor. In a pinch, in advance to stock up on boxes and bags and beg friends and family quickly pack everything after the banquet.
In principle, these are the main organizational issues that need to be considered. Think of them in advance and you can just enjoy the holiday without any hassle!
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